Kepentingan menyimpan dan berkat gaji.

Musim covid ni,bnyk syarikat tak boleh beroperasi.

Bila tak beroperasi,produk tak jalan.Bila takde produk,maka takde sales.Bila takde sales,takde la keuntungan.Bile takde untung,tak dpt byr modal dan kos pekerja.Maka xde la gaji.

Yang ini kita kena faham,anggaplah ini ketentuan Allah.Redha.

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Alhamdulilah,sejak hari pertama aku kerja,aku ade tabiat untuk saving a part of gaji aku tuk future use.Selepas 8 tahun bekerja,ade lah sikit simpanan tuk emergency,tak bnyk mana tapi cukup la untuk cover sekurang2 5 bulan tak bekerja,termasuk byr keta dan rumah.

Ni tabiat org yg terlalu serius men game rpg or game jenis resource management.Dia tak kan proceed next story klo x stock lvl kaw2 or mineral(starcraft) padahal ape yg ade dh ckp dah. Hahaha... precaution kate org.

Sebenarnye sbb ak ni jenis pemalas.Malas nak cara.So ape2 jadi terus setel.Duit dh standby.hahaha

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Minggu ni masuk PKP yg ke tiga.Aku rasa susah hati dgn gaji yg aku dpt dari company.Aku terfikir nak beritau boss tak perlu bayar gaji aku next month,supaya dpt kurangkan beban company.Well basically company aku boleh je bayar,drg kaya.hehe Cuma aku tak sedap hati makan gaji buta.Rasa tak berkat.

Tiba2 aku dapat notification dari director aku,katenye ade secret mission,aku terpilih tuk jadi org2 yg dtg kerja.Hahaha

Sebab puasa nak dekat,content kena ade.Since aku ni org bujang yg keje dekat dgn opis,mybe aku rasa sebab tu aku terpilih.

Ok la tu,kebetulan baru je terfikir pasal makan gaji buta.Allah dah bagi solution.

If aku setuju,drg akan keluar surat dari company,as bukti aku dibenarkan kerja.Kang x pasal2 kena marah ngn akak polis.

Bosan duduk rumah ni...hehe 😁

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Kalau nak murah rezeki,jangan pernah complain tentang gaji kita.Jangan pernah masuk campur rezeki orang lain.Sikit ke banyak ke,diam2 saja.Bersyukur dan sedekah.Sebab,tu urusan Allah.Bila dia nak bagi?..banyak mana?..dekat mana?..macam mana?dia saja tau.

Aku berani cakap sebab aku dah rasa dah.Yakinlah rezeki Allah tu ada dan adil.

Aku faham,kita ada rasa sakit hati,rasa tak adil tengok org lain.Gaji banyak,kerja sikit.Kerja banyak,gaji sikit.Tapi itu cuma luaran,tak sampai pun separuh kebenaran yg kita nampak dgn mata kita.Kat belakang ade lagi,ada lagi faktor yg mengadili rezeki org.

Yang banyak gaji,bekerja sikit...tapi suka bersedekah,suka beramal...zaman dia pangkat bawahan dia dh bekerja keras,bnyk tlg pekerja lain,kerja lebih dr upah dia.Dia naik usaha sendiri.Siapa tau?

Yang banyak gaji,kerja sikit...mungkin hutang keliling,keluarga porak peranda,rezeki anak lambat...mungkin jugak istidraj.Tau ape makna dia?Sila google.hehe

Yang kerja banyak,gaji sikit..tapi urusan dunia sentiasa dimudahkan,senang beli umah,senang kawin,dtg musibah,kiri kanan org tolong...kan?

Yang kena kerja banyak,gaji sikit...kat belakang bnyk buat maksiat.Memburukan orang,aniaya org.Pun ade jugak.

Soal rezeki ni,Allah dah bagi adil.Kalau kita ni matang sikit tuk bukak mata dan fikir,kita akan nampak logik nye.Tak payah susah2 nak tgk jauh2,selak kain org.

Tgk diri sendiri sudah.Tengok betul2 secara ikhlas dan rendah diri.Jangan tgk diri dgn cara sombong.Memang tak jumpa. 🤗🤗

Who do you think you are?

If you're happy as what you said now,then why did you treat others badly?

Don't you know, part of your happiness come from the help of others before?

Did you just say that those people annoyed you?They don't respect you?So that's the reason why you won't treat them nicely?

Let me gave you some reality check,kid.

When you came to them before,you just a stranger.You were nobody, annoying,rude,you have no respect to elder and to the people you just met.

Yet,when you asked for help,those people gave their hand to you.Despite of you rudeness and annoying attitude,they still helped you.

For so many years,they still treat you nicely.Support you.They even helped solved the ridiculous problem you had with others in your daily life and in the workplace.And not even one 'thank you' come from your mouth or from your attitude.

Still they dont mind,and treat you nicely.

So let me ask you a question :

For all the attitude that you show to them right now, trying to justify yourself,and making them bad guys.

Do you think you have the right to do so?

And who do you think you are???

F***in asshole.

If only those people gave the authority to me to handle you..i will make you regret living in this world.

Consider yourself lucky,kid.

Remember,you not the only one with problem in this world.

Everyone walked the same path you walk right now.So don't get cocky if you happened to have a ride,because who make that ride possible for you....?

Those people...those same people that you fuckin right now.

Learn to be humble,learn to talk when need,learn to accept advice from others.

2 sides of the coin.

Duit syiling ada dua bahagian.

Aku pilih satu bahagian,dan aku hormat bahagian yang lain.

Kau pilih satu bahagian,dan kau hina bahagian yang satu lagi.

Dan itu yang membezakan antara kita berdua.

Paling teruk,kau tukar2 bahagian asalkan ianya memihak pada situasi kau.

Kau puji kedua-duanya,dan kau hina kedua-duanya bila perlu.

Tahukah kau Allah itu maha adil?

Stop evolving your "Koffing" into "Weezing"

These few years I admitted, I become toxic.

As much as I hate those toxic people in my life before, I become one.lol.

Didn't sure when did I caught this symptom.

As much as my friend remembered, I used to be a funny guy with a crazy attitude when I was a teenager

After I got my job, everything works out pretty much ok. Until the pressure comes.

Apart from that my media social account which I used to spend playing farm games, lol, was filled by hundreds of newsfeeds from my online friend. Almost 50% of it was negative input.

As much as I want to avoid it, sometimes I took a few minutes reading it just to understand a few of them. In my opinion, some people have a bad day, sometimes they just want to let it out or complaining about it so others can read and understand their situation. This is a common and very natural process as a human being.

That was my initial thought~

Until I read it every day and it starts to annoy me.Not just in media social, they even do it in everyday life. Especially when studying, hanging out with a friend, in a relationship or in the presentation of the project.

I decided to close my eyes and my ears from these "toxic" people because, at that time, I was in the '20s and I have a goal to achieve which is getting a job.

But,

The toxicity gets in me.

After a few years, these "toxic" people start to step into my boundaries and adding pressure to my life.

I start to complain about these people.  Telling others how annoyed them to me. How difficult it was to handle them nicely. How much they keep accusing me with false opinion to others even they never meet me or work with me.

Just like them, I do the same thing they do before. Isn't that ironic?

And this ends up bitting me back.

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One day I decided to write a few opinions on my social network. Something about people who were ungrateful on the job that they already have.

Someone getting mad at me, not sure why, and the first thing I read on their newsfeed was their claim on me as a "toxic" person.

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Imagine being called "toxic" by a person who is "toxic" to begin with. I can't express my feeling at that time. I'm speechless. o_o"

Instead of getting angry with that, I decided to keep calm and re-evaluate my action. Ashamed to myself, I believe it true that I already become toxic like them.

And it shocks me to the bone.

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So, in the end, I learn to admit it and decide to fix it. I take a few steps to fix this unhealthy symptom. 

One of them is by restriction the use of social media. I used Instagram more than FB or twitter. And I only filter my newsfeed such as charity and donation programme, travel photo and language study.

Secondly, I used a little bit of my money to travel. Its good once and for all to forget about your circle especially those "toxic" people, and see the others side of the world and learn other people culture. Its give me a boost in morale on persuading my career.

Third, avoiding "toxic" people. Doesn't mean I hate them. I just want them to know that I also have future and career to persuade. And after all these years, I still treat them nicely even until now. So I already did my part, and I think I have a right to make my own call.

Toxic people are not bad, they like us, having a normal life, sometimes they even have family and proper job. Maybe somewhere along the way, they walk in a different situation that makes them like this, or maybe they never even notice that they are toxic.im so glad that i a have a  few friends who is nice to me by reminding me about my weaknesses.

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Being an adult was such a pain in the ass. But it is necessary for me to go through this. Because one day I'm gonna have my own significant other and a family and this experience really help me later.

And remember: "Life’s too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you."

Lesson learned.

After a good morning walk at the lake garden, I begin to rethink my future plan. I skip the library over a new monitor screen for my pc.

I skip the kingdom movie and bon odori too for the sake of other people's happiness.

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I figure that I been thinking too much about something unnecessary and spending too many times on someone that I should consider as a seasonal person, especially in  2018 and this year.

I thought I helped them, but in the end, I just wasting my kindness on unnecessary people.

In fact, in the end, those people decided to be my enemy over a simple misunderstanding, and my friends were being poisoned to be against me.

Did they know how many times did I ever be patient to their annoying request and immature decision and yet still smile and helping them all this time?

What an ungrateful brat.

Well, whatever.

To tell you the truth, I already foresee this.

Its simple math, you knew from the very beginning they are not being honest with you. The words, body language, and action are all lying and full of rudeness, to begin with. It represents a selfish act rather than an honest one.

I mean a lot of people's, friends, my senior and the older before me, already face the same problem, it just a matter of time that I will be the next victim.

But yet I still help them. Yup, I know what your thinking.."this guy pretty stupid, he knows already yet still he help them".

Come on, I have my own code," never leave your friend without trying to help them."

But unfortunately, those were not "friend", I wish I realized it sooner.

Well, another whatever.

I will leave this stupid drama aside. I gain nothing good, people hate me, some leave me, avoid me, but I don't care bout it anymore. If by listening to the words of 'them' can be enough to judge me, then it's not enough to be in my circle as a friend.

Right now I'm professionally doing and improving my job. Getting along with 'professional' co-workers. And focusing on my dream and family. The house will come next year and perhaps it's a new beginning of this long-awaited plan. 

How bout friend?

Well, true friend, they will always stick around you, no matter what happened. They will remind you when your wrong, support you when your right. Those are the friend that you need to help when in trouble.

I learned my lesson, so hard that it makes me feel stronger than before. 

And yes, "You" out of my list.

Respect

When I was at a college, I used to have a lot of seniors who had to extends the study for more than 5 years.

Every one of them has a different reason for that. Car accident, repeat paper, miss class, family matter and so on. Some just end up with silly circumstances such as online gaming,dota, relationship, part-time work and simply lazy. Regardless of that, I have fun being with them. Some junior might feel ashamed to be associated with them. But for me no such thing.

Having respect for people who older or having experience things before us whether they good or not, was pretty much a rich lesson to me.

Thanks to those experiences, I never look down or disrespect my senior at my workplace. Even some of them are younger than me or treat me like a friend, or maybe treat me like trash, I still have a line that I put for myself to remind me that those are my seniors.

With that in mind, I can be professional at work. Although I'm still working on that.

On the other side, I don't mind if my junior doesn't want to respect me. After all, it is not compulsory for them to do so. And even so, I still treat them as a co-worker. It's a reflection that they want people to see about them so it might be weird if some of them whining about not getting involved in fun stuff or treating coldly by other co-workers later.

The advice I received from one of my superiors was like this (i was in junior years, and decided to quit my job) :

"No matter what happened, just be professional. We understand your situation, we are aware of that. But human is not easy to deal with, especially those whose carrier path is from other people's hardship."

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Even a junky has good advice to others.

It takes someone who experiences a bad thing to give a good lesson to others. It's common sense.

So respect your elders. It's not about them, it all about what inside you.

Don't get mad when somebody treated you bad,you already do the same to others anyway.

When I was young I thought that responsibility and friend come along together.yet when I'm growing up, those two things don't seem to fit well.

People seemed to make a fine line between them. but I try my best to make the gap close. despite that, it seems like, they really want it to be like that.

So, I learned from my current experience that, some people who tried to be mature, don't want to mix their responsibility with friendship.yet they keep yelling about bonding, friendship, respect, and all that nice stuff, while unintentionally doing the opposite.

While puzzling but yet try not to be pondered by this, I decided to leave what I thought as "unnecessary" stuff behind.not all the unnecessary were bad stuff.it just that it won't fit with my current goal, and it will better off to others.

Simply say, I'm just trying to be a "bad guy" who generously backs off from some "nice people's life" whom they called a victim.

Yup, I think I'm the one who getting matured.ironically.

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Oh well, life goes on, been traveled and investing a lot at different places since young just to be failed by the hand of others.guess I'm getting used to it.

It's time to go home. Away from these city people.