Living with An Asshole

Greeting.

Every one of us has a friend that knows the 'TRUTH' but decided to keep it for themself.

-this 'truth' can save a friend from choosing the wrong path.

-this 'truth' can help a friend to solve a problem and prevent it from getting bigger and worst.

-but most of all this 'truth' can self someone's life.

Yet this particular friend chooses to keep the 'truth' rather than telling it to the person who needs it.

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Aftermath.

The damage was done, people get injured, physically and mentally. All the bonding, relationship, and trust broke beyond repair.

This particular friend will come to you and pat your shoulder. Slowly they said :

"If you choose the other path, the thing wouldn't be this mess. You were overthinking. this whole time your were imagining thing in a different way. You fought the war you should not engage. I knew it because I already knew the TRUTH before."

At that time you got nothing but emptiness while your whole body being stab by a thousand arrows.

Yet they never tell you the 'truth' until the end.

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Given time, you brave enough to recover thanks to the help of people who sympathize with you. Although it hard you decide to restart your life and start a new leaf. Things are getting better for you.

Suddenly this particular friend comes to you with a smiley face. They said:

"I have a problem that I can't solve, I plan to ask others but I'm afraid they won't help me. You the only one I trust. Would you mind listen to my problem and help me solve it?

You know i have a problem with etc,etc,etc,etc,...please help talk to them about etc,etc,etc...I think I'm doing good but why people seem to etc, etc, etc..anyway please solve this for me."

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If you have this kind of friend in your life, let me give you and advice.

This is not a friend, but an 'asshole'.

If you value your life, future, and people around you, delete them from your list.

There is no good keeping this kind of people in your life. Because they are full with B's.

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Telling others about them won't do you any good. It will backfire you back. Trust me, I been there.

Here a tip:

-Avoid mingle around with them. Do it only if necessary in a professional way. Because they will refrain themself if they see you around. After all, the one who knows their true nature is you.

-Give them time and space to get involved with society. People like them love hanging around with big group or organizer because it serves them good and makes them feel superior to other. Through time the mask will slowly be broken and its true nature revealed.

-With enough time, society will realize what an asshole they were. Some might be stupid to realize it, but most of them will surely getting fed up especially the closest one. When that happens you no longer associated with these particular people, and their problem becomes a pain in the ass for society to fix.

-It took time, so meanwhile, just focus on what you have and the good friends you have around you.

-Remember, 'Kifarah' is real.